Deep down you really do want to submit, but you have too much pride to just LET it happen! In bed you tease and act out against your partner, provoking them to punish you without having to admit that you wanted it all along. Though you deny it, you want a partner who will protect you and make you feel safe while pushing your boundries. And that feeling of helplessness you hate? You're actually looking for it. But the most humiliating thing for you (or maybe the most arousing? ;D) is being forced to admit that you want to want to be used, and you love it when Seme takes control. You are simply afraid your partner won't respect your authority in the morning if you roll over too easily. In fact, fear is a big part of your existence; you won't try new things for fear of failure, limiting yourself, and even though you put on a brave face, you're afraid you'll never be good enough for your friends or partner. So you overcompensate by obsessively controlling everything around you, even the way people see you. Others would say you are charming and fun, but slightly predictable. People are drawn to you in everyday life because you laugh quickly and easiy and are extroverted in public, even if you withdraw into yourself later alone. In a relationship, you like to pull all the strings and can be a tad hypocritical. For example, you will poke, stroke and cuddle with your partner only if YOU initiate it, and become flustered and uncomfortable when the tables are turned. You like to argue but hate to lose (not that you often do), are easily jealous and even more easily bored. Your perfect match is the "Needy/ Romantic Seme": They will cater to your occasional bossiness and assuage your jealousy and silent cries for attention with their loyalty and gentleness. They will be fascinated by you as you slip past their defensive walls without even noticing how easily you've done it. And they will not be afraid to push you, nor averse to coddling you... maybe even at the same time!

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