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1.Be yourself (the real one) …
Everyone hands out this piece of advice; yet it is the one that you ladies seem to ignore the most. Don’t be who you think the guy wants you to be, just be yourself. Guys can see right through the fake bit, and if you are attracted to the type of man who wants a phony then you might want to reevaluate your standards.
2. You have a brain, use it …
If I have to date one more woman whose depth of conversation only includes celebrity gossip I may need to reevaluate my gender preference. You don’t need to be a rocket scientist to attract a man, but you do need to at least have something of value to say. If you’re interested in sports, that’s great; politics, even better. Just remember number two, say what you want to say not what you think he wants you to say.
3. Don't play these stupid mind games...
Guys like girls that they can understand. I don’t mean dumb yourself down, but rather un-complicate things when you can. Don’t play head games and don’t turn everything into an episode of Oprah. If a guy thinks you’re too much trouble it will be very difficult to get them to like you.
4. Be cute!
He will come over and talk to you. Don't be a total wallflower, but if you're just reading a magazine, try and look cute and wait until he can't resist and he might ask what book you're reading... and take the conversation on from there.
5. Don't be a slob!
It's a real turn-off for a guy when he notices a girl hasn't brushed her hair or wears the same outfit every other day. Even if you don't fall within the typical expectations, just looking presentable is always desirable--irrespective of who is the guy or girl.
6. Make him feel special.
There's got to be a reason that you want him to notice you, and that's because you noticed him first. Let him know--subtly--that you're interested in who he is, and that you sincerely want to get to know him better.
7. Just Talk To Him
When it comes down to it, talking to a guy, and flirting with him will get his attention, and if it doesn't then nothing will
1.Be yourself (the real one) …