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Unhealthy Ways to Cope
Drugs.
Drugs will not mend your broken heart. Relying on substances to help you deal with issues and heartache, will not lead to good things. You could end up addicted. It's really not a good thing to get into.
Alcohol.
Okay, most people have a drink, most people get drunk every now and then. But getting intoxicated regularly, and using alcohol as a kind of crutch really is not healthy either. It's much more beneficial to have healthy loving relationships, rather than using a bottle of vodka to get you through the day.
Sleeping Around.
This is your call, and your choice to make. But having sex to fuck away your problems and try forget about an ex won't work either. It's not solving the issue. It's not healing.
You should be careful and make sure, if you are having sex, that you want to, and it's with the right person. Do not be forced into it, or feel as if doing it will help you forget about an ex.
Cutting and self harming.
This is NEVER healthy, but it's especially unhealthy to deal with the break up of a relationship. Please don't be afraid to tell someone and to get advice. Physical pain is not going to get rid of the emotional pain.
For more advice on self harm, read the following threads:
http://www.emo-corner.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=31128
http://www.emo-corner.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=26848
http://www.emo-corner.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=171
Drugs.
Drugs will not mend your broken heart. Relying on substances to help you deal with issues and heartache, will not lead to good things. You could end up addicted. It's really not a good thing to get into.
Alcohol.
Okay, most people have a drink, most people get drunk every now and then. But getting intoxicated regularly, and using alcohol as a kind of crutch really is not healthy either. It's much more beneficial to have healthy loving relationships, rather than using a bottle of vodka to get you through the day.
Sleeping Around.
This is your call, and your choice to make. But having sex to fuck away your problems and try forget about an ex won't work either. It's not solving the issue. It's not healing.
You should be careful and make sure, if you are having sex, that you want to, and it's with the right person. Do not be forced into it, or feel as if doing it will help you forget about an ex.
Cutting and self harming.
This is NEVER healthy, but it's especially unhealthy to deal with the break up of a relationship. Please don't be afraid to tell someone and to get advice. Physical pain is not going to get rid of the emotional pain.
For more advice on self harm, read the following threads:
http://www.emo-corner.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=31128
http://www.emo-corner.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=26848
http://www.emo-corner.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=171